Trying to listen to the universe: Part 2

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Well, the universe definitely led me to the most beautiful campsite ever on the shore of Flathead Lake in Wayfarer’s State Park near Kalispell, Montana.

My boys and I had the best adventure. And it all started with pulling into the campground on a rainy, grey, Sunday afternoon. It had only been a short drive from Missoula, where we had been so I could find a place for the upcoming school term.

I have been to Flathead Lake before, so I knew where we were going. But we didn’t know what we would find when we arrived at the campground, except that I knew there were some sites that wouldn’t be reserved. After driving along Flathead Lake for the fifteen or twenty minutes it takes to drive down the length of the lake (it’s huge; and clear, and beautiful – not like the lakes around home), we arrived at the entry to Wayfarer’s State Park. Once we were in the campground, I noticed that most sites were taken, but there was the occasional site with an “Available” sticker posted. As we drove up to site no. 10, all three of us were bent forward looking at the large site with the lake in the background. “Oh my God it’s amazing!” I think we all said in unison. The campground is on a hill above the lake, and some of the sites are on the edge of a subtle hill, and most of them surrounded by trees. Site number 10 was such a site, with a view of the lake from the tent pad, and the firepit and picnic table surrounded on three sides: not just with trees, but with Saskatoon berries! Apparently Montanans aren’t interested in Saskatoon berries, because the trees laden with them all around the campground looked virtually untouched.

And I have somehow, miraculously, raised two teenaged boys who love picking berries. I know, weird, right? I guess that`s what happens when you don’t drag them out into a mosquito-plagued berry patch on a hot July day that you could have been swimming over at your friend`s house – 10 years in a row.  But I digress.

So after rushing to make our mystical union with site number 10 official with the Camp Host, we began to set up the tent. Again, I have somehow, miraculously, raised two teenaged boys who are helpful setting up camp, and within a couple of hours we were walking about, investigating the alluring foot trails leading off in three directions from our site.

When we camp, we camp. We have a tent, and a cooler, and a box full of cooking equipment, bug spray, and citronella candles. And that`s about it. And thus began a glorious two days in Bigfork, Montana.

I drove into Bigfork the next morning for a coffee, as the boys were still sleeping (only teenagers can sleep in past 8 in a tent). Bigfork is a quaint, gorgeous town, obviously brimming over with money, from the looks of the “cottages” I drove past. If you have been to Disneyland you will recall what Mainstreet U.S.A. looks like: full of beautiful shop fronts, shops teeming with useless souvenirs, mostly style and not much substance.

Bigfork is like that, but without Walt Disney’s hand with a death grip on your wallet. The downtown has all the obligatory shops in a lake town: watercraft rentals, real estate office, cafes, sporting goods, and outdoorsy clothing shops. I thought I had died and gone to heaven. It made me think “this is what people must be talking about when they talk about how amazing Banff was before it got commercialized.”

So I settled in at one of the cafes, with a fresh-baked blueberry scone and a brewed coffee. They had espresso but it felt like a cuppa-coffee kind of a morning. As it turns out, my waitress was from my home town in Saskatchewan (weird, I know), and we chatted about Saskatoon berries (“Dune” berries in Montana, evidently), and the benefits of living in Montana, and various other things. She bought me my scone, which by the way was the best scone I have ever tasted. The avalanche of coincidences and mystical moments that takes place when I travel to Montana is starting to seem, not normal, but comfortable, to me. So later in the day, when my boys and I went swimming with the couple staying in the campsite across from us, I wasn’t even surprised to learn that their daughter had gotten a Creative Writing degree at the University of Montana. Of course she had. Because that is how small the world really is when you let the universe guide you.

Best. Camping. Trip. Ever.

Recent randomness I could not make up if I tried

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Just a brief summary of my week:

Go on Tinder – meet a real human being. Weird.

Go to Missoula with kids – look at a rental house that I can`t walk all the way into because of the bad energy I feel and go running out.  I am now convinced that a. reincarnation exists, and b. I lived in Missoula in another life (I shit you not). Tell current love interest that I think I am the reincarnated soul of Sacagawea. A girl can dream.

Have best vacation ever in Missoula and find it hard to believe I will be moving there in a month.

I have the best kids ever. They make me more.

Meet a cool lady who asks me to live in her basement, a woman from Regina who is a server in Bigfork, and a couple whose daughter took creative writing at the University of Montana (SO FUCKING WEIRD)

Camp at the best campsite ever on the shore of Flathead Lake. Definitely died and went to heaven for a day.

Get home and find Divorce Certificate in mail. Weird that it`s not weird or even very important.

Happy to be me, here, and now. Weird and grateful.

Sometimes it takes a Flashing Neon Sign

I’m in Missoula with my kids, ready to head back towards home. We came here so I could pick out a place to live when I come here in the fall to belatedly complete my English Degree, with a minor in Creative Writing. A separate entry will be required for all of the crazy coincidences that have been pummeling me for the last week. I will deal with just the one here. I am trying to choose a campground or two to stay at for the two remaining days of our trip.

 

Ok universe, ok.   I tried to pick a campground based on convenience to our route home; it should be in the mountains, because what is the point to being in Montana sans mountains;  the presence of showers and a nice lake or creek is also a prerequisite, and possibly activities we would be interested in. There are approximately 17,342 campgrounds in Montana. But the universe keeps leading me back to Wayfarers State Park on Flathead Lake (I fell in love with the location on a previous finding-myself-trip to Montana). Ok. OK! OK ALREADY!!! I don’t know why this is so important to the universe, but I learned when it hit me on the head last year to listen. Maybe I’m supposed to save the world from there, or maybe the zombie apocalypse will break out while we are there, and it is the ideal place to pit in; but clearly I have to go there and camp with my kids.

 

My boys do have an arsenal of new Nerf weapons purchased while we were in Missoula. One of our zombie apocalypse scenarios involves the undead horde’s suprising but useful vulnerability to orange foam Nerf bullets. So in an A Prayer for Owen Meany kind of a way, maybe it is all falling together.

I`ll let you know.

Next entry: The house in old Missoula that freaked me the F out.